Monday, May 02, 2005
DA B.O.B.s (Part 1)
So I have this fantasy that keeps playing in my head...I am at a sex party, wearing the skimpy leather fetish outfit I rigged up...leather collar with rings, crossing straps over my bare chest, and a harness. With dildo attached. I am moving along a row of preacher curls, three of them. A naked guy is draped over each one, his butt positioned nicely in the air. Ready for me to pummel, which I proceed to do. Since I am feeling rather good about things, I untie their hands, so they can diddle themselves as I'm fucking them. This makes them extremely happy.
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Men getting off on getting fucked up the ass? Unheard of, you say? Unlikely to happen in anyone's lifetime soon? Well, I would beg to differ. Welcome to a new phenomenom making its way from private bedrooms, around the sex party circuit, onto blog pages, and probably - if it hasn't already - even hitting the pages of a publication like Playboy.
It's the occurrence of the Bendover Boyfriend phenomenom. Da B.O.B.s as I am want to call them.
I am writing about this as part of the larger topic of polyamory, because I believe anal sex is becoming more of a mainstream thing. It is one of the more "radical" styles of loving under the larger umbrella of polyamory, indeed it is one of the unique tools of polyamory.
A further sign of this development can be seen in the arrival of Toni Bentley's erotic memoir of anal sex that came out last fall, entitled "The Surrender." It's a hot little read, let me tell you, and rather beautifully written. If you like your sodomy dressed up a little, that is. For her, the forbidden act becomes a doorway of personal discovery.
If it can work that way for a woman, then it certainly can for a male. That's what I see taking place out there today.
You see, men are discovering their prostates. And I don't mean just in their annual visits to the doc. Nor does it mean either that they're sodomizing their female associates any more than usual these days. That act I always thought might be saying more about what the guys really wanted for themselves, rather than anything they intended for their girlfriends.
Guys are liking it up the ass now too. They may not come out too openly and drop the news at the next Sunday family barbie, but explorations are under way. Usually with wives, or girlfriends. Less frequently with other males, but that is changing too, judging by all the Butt Work I saw being done at recent sex parties my partner and I have attended. Not only does it feel good to them, it represents a symbolic movement towards revealing their own inner natures, and being comfortable with that.
TO BE CONTINUED
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Men getting off on getting fucked up the ass? Unheard of, you say? Unlikely to happen in anyone's lifetime soon? Well, I would beg to differ. Welcome to a new phenomenom making its way from private bedrooms, around the sex party circuit, onto blog pages, and probably - if it hasn't already - even hitting the pages of a publication like Playboy.
It's the occurrence of the Bendover Boyfriend phenomenom. Da B.O.B.s as I am want to call them.
I am writing about this as part of the larger topic of polyamory, because I believe anal sex is becoming more of a mainstream thing. It is one of the more "radical" styles of loving under the larger umbrella of polyamory, indeed it is one of the unique tools of polyamory.
A further sign of this development can be seen in the arrival of Toni Bentley's erotic memoir of anal sex that came out last fall, entitled "The Surrender." It's a hot little read, let me tell you, and rather beautifully written. If you like your sodomy dressed up a little, that is. For her, the forbidden act becomes a doorway of personal discovery.
If it can work that way for a woman, then it certainly can for a male. That's what I see taking place out there today.
You see, men are discovering their prostates. And I don't mean just in their annual visits to the doc. Nor does it mean either that they're sodomizing their female associates any more than usual these days. That act I always thought might be saying more about what the guys really wanted for themselves, rather than anything they intended for their girlfriends.
Guys are liking it up the ass now too. They may not come out too openly and drop the news at the next Sunday family barbie, but explorations are under way. Usually with wives, or girlfriends. Less frequently with other males, but that is changing too, judging by all the Butt Work I saw being done at recent sex parties my partner and I have attended. Not only does it feel good to them, it represents a symbolic movement towards revealing their own inner natures, and being comfortable with that.
TO BE CONTINUED
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