Monday, January 23, 2006
Lo And Behold, A Girlie Party! (Pt 2)
Tonight we are taking in one of the rare all-women sex parties in San Francisco.
My concern at these things has always been: will the women play together? I have had my doubts whether this would occur. My friend N has told me though that the main problem is getting women out of their houses in the first place. Once you get them somewhere, they WILL play.
I did not see it myself, but I did see lots of erotic foreplay activity. A gaggle of us did visit the make-out room, where, basically, we made out. One tall black butch sat in a sofa chair as another black dancer gyrated her way into a lap dance.
After talking for a while with a rather attractive femme, who do I end up with in the make-out room but a rather attractive soft butch. And what's that all about, I ask myself. I can move with the femmes and start off flirting with them, but for some reason, when push comes to shove, it is the butchier women I am more likely to end up with.
This one kind of made a beeline for me early on, we flirted and bobbed and weaved about each other, then we migrated around the room, then we hooked up later.
"Let's go to the make out room," I forget whose idea it was but we ended up there in nothing flat. I have been scornful of cuddle parties and the like, but now I can say, cuddling is good. It's nice just being close and intimate with a woman you've just met. I really got off on just running my fingers along her arms and shoulders. As she is a bit more fleshy than I am, she finds my lean shoulder blades fascinating. You'd think she had never seen shoulders before.
After a while spent here, it becomes apparent we are not ready to go the next step further. That's ok, this is a start. I wanted to set modest goals for myself on this night.
After all, we're dealing with women here. Caution and easy speed are the better parts of valor tonight.
So why do I term this party a success overall? Because I picked up the vibe that others, like me, enjoyed themselves and liked what they participated in. They liked the vibes, just being comfortably with other women was probably fine for most of these women.
But we're all hoping the sponsors throw another party, because I think the pot will grow bigger then, you will find the same group of people and they will be ready for bigger and better hopefully.
The week after this party, I posted, along with other women, comments on Craigslist about the party. The general consensus was that it was excellent, and people want more.
Highlights Along The Way:
- A really hot "Hostess" greeted us when we first came in. Trim, blonde, in heels and dress, she was quite fetching. Do we get to boff her, or is she off limits? I must find out the etiquette about this.
- A really terrific black butch did a soulful, intense little strip-tease on the stage. She is trim and fit and bristles with lovely muscular definition. Earlier, I was admiring her nice little black leather collar, which came with a discreetly shaped lock.
- The women overall were appealing, and they were in high spirits. There was a lot of good energy in this place.
As impressed as I was by this party, I had a few suggestions for future events. More games would be nice, to get people even better acquainted. We did have a Scavenger Hunt, where people went looking for women with the most unusual piercings, tattoos, the hottest underwear, the nicest tits. You get the idea. More could be done along these lines.
I would also suggest an "intermediate" room between making out and outright sex play. A room where massage could be done, or cuddling which could include more physical contact. Again, I think a lot of women would want this first, even if they wanted nothing after it. I enjoyed my experience cuddling with the soft butch lady, it would have been nice to undress each other and just play physically after that, without necessarily having to move on to sex play. Of course it would certainly help the play if you could start this way.
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My concern at these things has always been: will the women play together? I have had my doubts whether this would occur. My friend N has told me though that the main problem is getting women out of their houses in the first place. Once you get them somewhere, they WILL play.
I did not see it myself, but I did see lots of erotic foreplay activity. A gaggle of us did visit the make-out room, where, basically, we made out. One tall black butch sat in a sofa chair as another black dancer gyrated her way into a lap dance.
After talking for a while with a rather attractive femme, who do I end up with in the make-out room but a rather attractive soft butch. And what's that all about, I ask myself. I can move with the femmes and start off flirting with them, but for some reason, when push comes to shove, it is the butchier women I am more likely to end up with.
This one kind of made a beeline for me early on, we flirted and bobbed and weaved about each other, then we migrated around the room, then we hooked up later.
"Let's go to the make out room," I forget whose idea it was but we ended up there in nothing flat. I have been scornful of cuddle parties and the like, but now I can say, cuddling is good. It's nice just being close and intimate with a woman you've just met. I really got off on just running my fingers along her arms and shoulders. As she is a bit more fleshy than I am, she finds my lean shoulder blades fascinating. You'd think she had never seen shoulders before.
After a while spent here, it becomes apparent we are not ready to go the next step further. That's ok, this is a start. I wanted to set modest goals for myself on this night.
After all, we're dealing with women here. Caution and easy speed are the better parts of valor tonight.
So why do I term this party a success overall? Because I picked up the vibe that others, like me, enjoyed themselves and liked what they participated in. They liked the vibes, just being comfortably with other women was probably fine for most of these women.
But we're all hoping the sponsors throw another party, because I think the pot will grow bigger then, you will find the same group of people and they will be ready for bigger and better hopefully.
The week after this party, I posted, along with other women, comments on Craigslist about the party. The general consensus was that it was excellent, and people want more.
Highlights Along The Way:
- A really hot "Hostess" greeted us when we first came in. Trim, blonde, in heels and dress, she was quite fetching. Do we get to boff her, or is she off limits? I must find out the etiquette about this.
- A really terrific black butch did a soulful, intense little strip-tease on the stage. She is trim and fit and bristles with lovely muscular definition. Earlier, I was admiring her nice little black leather collar, which came with a discreetly shaped lock.
- The women overall were appealing, and they were in high spirits. There was a lot of good energy in this place.
As impressed as I was by this party, I had a few suggestions for future events. More games would be nice, to get people even better acquainted. We did have a Scavenger Hunt, where people went looking for women with the most unusual piercings, tattoos, the hottest underwear, the nicest tits. You get the idea. More could be done along these lines.
I would also suggest an "intermediate" room between making out and outright sex play. A room where massage could be done, or cuddling which could include more physical contact. Again, I think a lot of women would want this first, even if they wanted nothing after it. I enjoyed my experience cuddling with the soft butch lady, it would have been nice to undress each other and just play physically after that, without necessarily having to move on to sex play. Of course it would certainly help the play if you could start this way.
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