Thursday, January 05, 2006
Rating The Sex Parties (Pt.2)
A very very close "second" goes to D's parties every month up in Sebastopol. This is an area virtually adjacent to the Napa Valley wine country region in northern California. This party was a big "wow" for me, as it had, by a long distance, the most attractive women of any party. I am not into huge women at all, and in this venue, fortunately, the women are nearly all thin little squeaks for the most part. I was in seventh heaven.
The crowd has great energy, and although it is predominantly hetero, there are notable pockets of alternative energy going on. Great food, modest alcohol, a fabulously suited house, and great music all contributed to a wonderful time. The guests are invited to sleep over, and the hostess makes a great brunch the next day. It's a great way to keep the connections going. Beginners and pros would be happy here, and actually the guests were equally divided on the night I attended. Half of them were new, half of them returning. I had a blast. This is one party that seems to grasp the fact that single women are desirable creatures to have about, and they will let them in for free their first time there. Something nice to note.
Avatar's bisexual massage parties have been lots of fun too. You have to be prepared for a much smaller scale though when you come here. His apartment near the U.C. Med Center is small; he could use more space. But the people are friendly, and they become friendlier in the intimate setting.
What makes his parties unusual is that they are aimed at bisexual men. His requirements are that straight men can come, as long as they bring a female partner. But several single women have worked their way into the mix, and they can enjoy themselves here too. Avatar has no pretensions about making money off this. There is no entrance fee per se, just bring a food or drink item that would be welcome at any party. None of this hefty $50 a couple thing, or $25 for single people.
My first fisting experience occurred here, so I will always vouch for Avatar. Because these events are set up as massage parties, people lose their clothes pretty early, and the mood becomes conducive to play faster than at other parties. The setting is funky, but very friendly, and if you're a girl like me who enjoys seeing males get it on, why come on down!
The bondage clubs, notably the Power Exchange and the Citadel, both in San Francisco proper, are specifically BDSM play spaces. These are not sex paraties per se, it is more about staging your particular "scene." These are the places you probably want to head for when plain old fucking just gets you down, and you really do want something far from ordinary.
At least they offer spaces where you can wear those cute leather fetish outfits that are nearly impossible to wear anywhere else.
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The crowd has great energy, and although it is predominantly hetero, there are notable pockets of alternative energy going on. Great food, modest alcohol, a fabulously suited house, and great music all contributed to a wonderful time. The guests are invited to sleep over, and the hostess makes a great brunch the next day. It's a great way to keep the connections going. Beginners and pros would be happy here, and actually the guests were equally divided on the night I attended. Half of them were new, half of them returning. I had a blast. This is one party that seems to grasp the fact that single women are desirable creatures to have about, and they will let them in for free their first time there. Something nice to note.
Avatar's bisexual massage parties have been lots of fun too. You have to be prepared for a much smaller scale though when you come here. His apartment near the U.C. Med Center is small; he could use more space. But the people are friendly, and they become friendlier in the intimate setting.
What makes his parties unusual is that they are aimed at bisexual men. His requirements are that straight men can come, as long as they bring a female partner. But several single women have worked their way into the mix, and they can enjoy themselves here too. Avatar has no pretensions about making money off this. There is no entrance fee per se, just bring a food or drink item that would be welcome at any party. None of this hefty $50 a couple thing, or $25 for single people.
My first fisting experience occurred here, so I will always vouch for Avatar. Because these events are set up as massage parties, people lose their clothes pretty early, and the mood becomes conducive to play faster than at other parties. The setting is funky, but very friendly, and if you're a girl like me who enjoys seeing males get it on, why come on down!
The bondage clubs, notably the Power Exchange and the Citadel, both in San Francisco proper, are specifically BDSM play spaces. These are not sex paraties per se, it is more about staging your particular "scene." These are the places you probably want to head for when plain old fucking just gets you down, and you really do want something far from ordinary.
At least they offer spaces where you can wear those cute leather fetish outfits that are nearly impossible to wear anywhere else.
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